Wednesday, 8 June 2016


Hi, I'm Phia. Although this blog is anonymous I am using the 'stage name' if you like, of Phia. However, to me, it is more than just a false name, it is who I want to be, it's the name that makes me feel safe and happy. In my head I know exactly who that girl is, i know what she's like and where she wants to go. She is the person i hope to someday be.

Anonymity isn't my way of hiding from the real world, it's my way of being able to personally reach out to you, as a reader, and to myself as an individual. I want this blog to be a place where someone can share their most hidden thoughts and feelings whether that be about food, family or the changing ways of society. For me, writing is an escape. Whereas some people like to draw, dance or play music, i like to grab a piece of paper and a pen and write. But sometimes that isn't enough; having someone you can talk to about your troubles and having someone you can connect with is a truly rewarding thing. And that's why i'm bringing Phia to you, not only so I can share my thoughts and offload a bit, but so those of you who feel they need to express themselves or need advice, can do so here, with me and with each other.

People say we both born alone and die alone, but honestly, I don't think that's true. There is always someone there you can reach out to whether you notice it or not, you just have to take advantage of that. Although this blog will be a place where I talk about the things that are getting me down in hope that I don't hold it all in and get myself in a state, it's also a place where I will share many inspirational quotes and stories with you guys, as a little inspiration goes a long way and sometimes that's all it takes you drive you to a happier place.

So Welcome.



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  2. (Mesg went away, lolls). But I was saying welcome to blogging. Hope you'll enjoy, and take care :)

    1. Thank you for the warm welcome!

    2. Welcomes :). **thought mesh didn't go through, so deleted it anyway. Lolls. Digi issues.

  3. Welcome to the world of blogging! I really like what you said about being anonymous to be able to share the real you and not hide away. I totally get where your coming from, I feel like I'm somehow more myself on the internet where I'm not as worried about what people think of me etc. I'm looking forward to seeing more from your blog and I'm sure one day you will truly learn how to be "Phia". Keep up the great work :) xxx

  4. Welcome! I totally understand where you are coming from with being Phia, I feel like the internet is where I can truly be who I want to be, as you said there are people out there I can reach to. Great first post, I'm looking forward to reading more in the future!
    Elise |

  5. This is a great first post, I think a lot of people find blogging and this way of being anonymous really beneficial! Welcome... and enjoy! Looking forward to future posts:)))